Happy birthday Greetings

Feb 5th 09 - Wishing my Dear Friend Close to Heart, Darlenx T10 on her 28th birthday today...

Quotes of the day: "Because time itself is like a spiral, something special happens on your birthday each year: The same energy that God invested in you at birth is present once again."

CNY with Sewerage Dept Work Collegue

Feb 5th 09 Thursday - Just sharing some few glimpse of having a Chinese New Year Open House at our work collegue. Ya~Ya~Ya~ I know; i said i'm on "HIATUS" , well....can't resist on sharing about a day with my work collegue...So enjoy the pictures~~

This pictures was purposely taken, i was testing my camera Handphone...I didn't get a pretty good view for all the pictures i took, most are candids..

Foods anyone~~ Hehehehe..i ate more than what you bloggers see here...hehehehe..Had my appetite like a Beast today(NOT!!) *LOL*

The one with Maroon shirt, Ah Soon is the Host of the CNY Open house. The other two are my work collegue..Hj Sufri & Slamat.

I was intrigue with the Big Chinese Symbol on the wall & wonder what does it stands for...

With our Cool Boss the blue shirt..C.T.A Nasir...Who just arrive..

Glimpse of a Snap shot~

G-Cas & Me

The Titanic...My work collegue were making fun of this toy..Well..since the house is near to the beach side & its been raining alot; possibilities FLOOD will occur...sooOOooo just hop on to this So-Called-Titanic...(thoughts in my mind was..."Wha..wha...what?!! Hehkk??!! Okay whatever~ *LOL*)
Okay....theres a funny part when i take this picture. Hj Sufri thought i was taking his picture with G-Cas. And so he was ready posing his action but instead, i was taking a picture of the banner on the door...




I burst to laughter due to both of them Pose hippy moment.....but hehehehe not to disappoint them..i took their pictures...as well...ehehehehe (sayang jua kan bergmbar atu...bukan selalu~~)





Quotes of the Day: “This Chinese New Year...we have had record 'sell out' crowds.”

Out of the Blue Outing Jan 23rd 09

Friday Jan 23rd 09 - One fine early Friday morning...I woke up early by 7am due to Mr Nippon otoko is having his off day work on Friday. Darn it...I slept real late the night before, i'd only had my sleep for 5 hours *gulp* The day before, Mr Nippon otoko had his sleep the whole day after from work & he purposely woke me up...LUCKY ME TO HAVE SOMEONE WHO NEVER SEEMS TO LET YOU SLEEP QUITELY LIKE A BABY~(sacarstic) *shrugs* T_T


And so i can't go to sleep once i'm wide awake...I decide to go online..checking ya~da~ya~da~la~la emails, friendster, Facebook especially Pet Society & reading other bloggers page...till 10am.


Suddenly My Bro, after he had his shower; he was asking a favor from me to accompany him to Re-Do his Car plate license..its Letter "H" missing!! MISSING??!! HOW??!! He have no idea how it'd happen!!

So by 11.00am we took off to the workshop, spontaneously a conversation of My Bro & I :


My Bro - "Bah kan kemana tani ni?? Kan di Belait..nada jua apa² lagipun its Friday"


Me - 'Kn ke Seria jua ku tpi tutup jua ne Due to Friday Prayers'(thoughts in my mind).... "Mana la saya tauuUUuuu~"


My Bro - "Bah ke Bandar tani!!"


Me - "HEHK????!!! Ko GILAX kaHhhH????" *gulps*


My Bro - "AU ehy!! Bah Ke Bandar ehhyyyyYYyy...I'm in my MOOD GILERXX!!"


Me - "Bah Mana sja..yg penting Jalan....LOL :D"


And hehehehe...."Out of the Blue My Bro & I are up to BSB now!! Keje Gilerxxx!!!


Along the way to BSB, we receive text from a Friend; Its from Ms Chacha Wachaaa. She saw my status on Facebook & shes tagging along, since she had nothing to do.



Oh yah i just remember that day was the 3rd day in BSB had no Electric Supplies..due to the FLOOD. My Bro had his Absent-Minded (the usual him when he's having his MOOD GILERX but wrong timing *sigh*) Anyhoo, we were about to go outing at Gadong....In a Sudden...I was BLANK~ & (thoughts in my mind was...) *Where are all the cars & traffic jam in Gadong*


Me - *piAkkKKkk* On my forehead "HEY BRO, YOU OBVIOUSLY FORGET THAT GADONG HAD NO ELECTRIC DUE TO THE FLOOD!!!"


My Bro - "ShooOOooTtT!!! DARN IT!! I thought ada....since d KB(Kuala Belait) ada!!"


Me - *shrugs* T_T (thoughts in my mind was...) Hekk??!!Where the heck does he get that..In Kb ada electric so in BSB mesti ada...Jauh jua kali ahhhh..KB & BSB... "Bah ehyyyyy Change Location!!"


So we go to Qiulap to check in for electric supplies. Lucky us Q-Lap Mall open up but some small shops are closed. So the 3 of us had our High-Tea at Au Lait. And we Entertain ourself taking pictures...while waiting to meet up Iszzy(My Buddy).



Welcome to Au Lait..Vanilla Latte anyone~

Hmm..where is the menu~ Uhmm..its on the wall can't you see~ heheheheh









Pose it babeh~~

*mmmMMmmmMMMmm* HppppHHHhhhFFffffFFFfff*

Taking a reflection of us in the mirror from our sittings...

Hua Ho Tanjong Bunut

Big Claw Paw Fluffy Pillow~~

Reflection from the Mirror~~ I wonder who is the Ghost~~ Hahahahahah...

Stripes~

Enjoy the pictures...I'll be on HIATUS so Drop by my Shout Out Box if you have something to share....

What I bought Feb 1st 2009

Just sharing few things with my Crappy-ness...on what i bought last Sunday after my friend birthday function.

I bought myself a Keychain, a very Cute one though. Its an Australian Product(thats what i read on other people's blog). This product they name it "KimmiDoLL". I had my eyes on it, after i read on someone's blog. I browse to their own Official website, they even have other stuff as well. They even have more of this doll with different names includes meanings to each names.

Mine her name is Keiko stands for "Respect" . I was eyeing for Kaori that stands for "Strength", unfortunately the Sales Girl said, they just order few of it because its New in stock. And so.....I might getting this "KimmiDoLL" as my new Die-Hard Fan collection. So....sSsoOoo..SsooOOoo...anyone who can't think of anything what to give me for my Present..go get this Cute stuff for me~ I bought this keychain at Knic Knacs Plaza Atirah. Here is the link to http://kimmidoll.com/

This is Makoto stands for "SINCERITY" its a gift i bought for the Birthday Girl Ms Chacha..I know it will looks "KAWAII nehhhh"

Went to Tanjong Bunut Hua Ho and bought myself a New Handbag. My old bag had wornout. Not the outside..its from the inside. Shockingly...I got one big hole..that makes all my stuff lost inside...in which; i spend few $$$ on the stuff; Which i thought i lost em' somewhere..But the bag itself had kidnap it... *shrugs*

Lunch Birthday Feb 1st 2009

HAPPY BRITHDAY FEB 1st 2009

Sunday Feb 1st 09 - Went to a friend birthday RSVP at MRSA Mall Gadong.

The birthday girl would be Ms Chacha & yessss...Her Sis Enah advance birthday. So sharing on the pictures on my blog as a tribute...Lets check it out..

That us with Cupcakes~ Sorry for the blurry image...We're trying to show the wordings acutally, didn't expect the picture turnsout to be blurryyyyyYYYyyy~~ *sigh*

NyEw~NyEW~ SnIfF~sNiFf~ *LOL*

Yeaaaaa~~ Cupcakes anyone~~!! ChuPpP ChAkEeEeEeeE~~

Peace YoooOOoo~Waiting for foods~ HunGrYyyyYYYyyyYYY~

YuMmY ChUp ChAkEeEeEs~~

Opening Ceremony Present from Echa's Spouse. "I wonder what is it? Hmmm...i kNoW~I KnOw~ Is it got to do with a GirL's BesTFriend...BLinGs~bLiNgS???

TaDaaAAaa...Its a Big Bling Limited Edition SuperMario Bros~

Myself was thinking again...*i thought it was the Girl's bestfriend blings..blings...but NOT* To Ms Chacha if you're reading this 'Jgn Mare yeee cikkkk!!'

Beautiful Make-Up Cream Cake for Kak Enah~ YeeaaaaaAAaa~

Iszzy (My Buddy) & Me...Who are you giving it TO..?? (look at the cupcake wording) Iszzy?? Sky?? Hmm??? Who???

With Alai the Newly Wed~ Congrats Once Again~

ChUp ChAkEeeEEeeEEee~~

Cam~Pic *LOL*

AFTER THE FUNCTION~.

Kopitiam Yappy Q-Lap

I was fooling around with My Buddy's Shades...How do you like meeEEee shades~~

*GGggRRrrrRRRR*

HaPpY 29th BuTtDaY to Ms ChacHa WaaChaaAAaa~

A perfect smile from the Newly Weds~

Quotes of the day: Last week the candle factory burned down. Everyone just stood around and sang, 'Happy Birthday.'

Ways to Deal with Heart Broken Part 2

PAIN IS NOT A BAD THING

One important thing that some people took away from a breakup is that they feared the pain. They were so afraid of the pain that they would put themselves through all of these complicated emotional “workarounds” just to avoid the pain. I think we make it harder by all of the avoidance behaviours we engage and that simply postpone the true healing process.

If you really loved someone, then the pain is something you SHOULD feel. Pain is not a bad thing. It is healthy and restorative. Pain means someone was important to you. It means that you are capable of deep love. By allowing the pain to freely move through you means that healing is taking place. Pain is your ally.

When you put weight on a broken ankle, pain is the sensation telling you “not yet”, the ankle isn’t ready”.

The pain is protecting you and alerting the brain of an area that requires resources and time. Well, emotional pain serves the same purpose.
The human brain is an absolutely astounding creation by god.

Your brain relies on pain.

It’s the feedback your brain needs to learn that the normal pathways associated with a certain person it once considered highly pleasurable are now highly UNPLEASANT. Your brain needs this pain to learn that this person is no longer to be associated with those positive feelings.
Over time, your thoughts of the person will lose what is called the “emotional charge” and the thought of your ex lover literally no longer carries the same electrical current.

EMOTIONALLY MATURE PERSON

An emotionally mature person knows that you can’t make anyone love you no matter how much you love them. “Love cannot be kept by force; it can only be achieved by understanding”. The pain of breakup is awful at first. There’s no denying this, but as bad as it may be, it isn’t lethal. The pain itself can’t kill you and in time, it passes.
How you come to handle a breakup is really a sign of your emotional maturity. As you mature emotionally, you’ll handle them differently, and better.
Strive to be the emotionally mature adult who understands several things about losing a relationship with someone they love. This does not mean controlled or indifferent about the hurt you’re facing. Most importantly that you and YOU are alone responsible for your happiness and emotional well-being and that regardless of the crises, you will eventually feel better.

Signs of Emotionally Maturity

Ø An emotionally mature adult understands that it will HURT BADLY and they make room for this in their lives. They make that time and space necessary to breakdown and fall apart.

Ø An emotionally mature adult understands that it’s ok to cry even a lot. (This is especially true for us men who feel crying is inappropriate). Crying is very beneficial to healing and so is talking to someone about their feelings or even writing them down. *Personal Note: The first month when I broke up with my ex, I didn’t allow myself to cry, even in private. I just became detached, numb and having sleeping disorder which led to a prolonged recovery and a bad depression that I eventually have to take some anti depression pills to help me straightened up. After the 1 months period, I made it a point to cry privately and intensely. I also kept a journal too and went to a love forum on the internet expressing how I feel which was VERY helpful.

Ø An emotionally mature adult understands that the pain is necessary and that regardless of its intensity, it nonetheless TEMPORARY.

Ø An emotionally mature adult is not afraid of the pain. Whether they like it or not, they accept it and know they have to face it. They allow it to fully flow through them. They don’t try to distract themselves of it, deny it, numb it or self-medicate it. They say to their pain “do your worst, I can take it”. Some people come to the extends of drowning themselves in alcohol (which I’ve done myself on the first 2 months of my break up) or taking drugs, but in honesty all these doesn’t help to cure the pain..It just worsens it when you get sober and what’s worse you’re damaging your health as well.

Ø An emotionally mature adults understand that it makes no sense whatsoever to think that they can change the outcome of the breakup and that they don’t allow themselves to go through the futile exercises of begging, waiting, continuously calling, writing letter, sending email, pleading or trying to show their ex that they’ve “changed” in attempts to get the relationship back . I’ve experienced this with my previous ex girlfriend that the more you begged, calling or flood their email, the more they lose their respect to you as they already had in the first place. There’s no point in loving someone when they do not have any respect for u and that they can’t appreciate u.

“When she cheated on you over some guy, there is no better revenge than to let her keep him. For forgiveness is the sweetest revenge.”

“Love is not a clock. You simply cannot take it apart just to see what makes it tick, and even if you could, you probably could never get it back together again.”


Ø An emotionally mature adult knows that the only way they will get past their break up is by having ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT with their ex for an extended period of time and giving themselves distance. If somebody dumps u because they doesn’t appreciate you or can’t wait for u then it is their loss for giving up someone who truly loves them. There is no point in contacting them as you will get hurt by their answer or attitude which leads to prolonged recovery. If they still love you then they will call u, they will come to u by hell or high water. I know sometimes some dumper would just simply call the person they dump just to say hi or whatever reason (without having the intention of taking them back). These people is holding you on a string and keeping you dangling or hanging which they love to do so. I believe this is a cruel and selfish act. They're the ones who want the distance, but when you comply with their wishes they get all needy. These people just need to know they call the shots. Remember, anyone who messes with your emotions, is not worth dealing with, because they'll always expect YOU to go that extra nine yards for THEM. They should know better that emotions are not collector’s item. So turn the cards or table if you have to n let them know that the only reason they should call is when they want to say “Let’s get together again.” Other than that, then it should be ABSOLUTELY NO CONTACT.

Ø An emotionally mature adult knows that during this period of time (No contact), they will not be themselves. They will behave irrationally and be overwhelmed by their feelings at times. They will fell a compulsive need to contact their ex or question everything about the relationship. They know they will feel extremely angry, insecure or jealous for a period of time.



Ø An emotionally mature adult knows that the constant ‘longing’ or ‘yearning’ and the hit to their self-esteem following a breakup is a normal part of the grieving process and that they can allow the feelings and fully feel them without giving into them or acting on them.



Ø An emotionally mature person knows all that mention above shall pass and they know that in time, this person will no longer stir the same feelings in them.



An emotionally mature person knows that when he or she is ready, they will fall in love again because they know that the feeling comes from the inside and NOT from the object of their affection.



Ø An emotionally mature person knows that they should forgive the person who hurt them as forgiveness brings inner peace. They knows that they are glad for having her/him as part of their lives for her/him have open their eyes to True Love which once gave them happiness.





Thats the Part 2 of it...