Ways to Deal with Heart Broken Part 1 Introduction

Ways to Deal with Heart Broken.

“Love works like magic, but beware magic could as well be an illusion”.

“Summer romance ends for all kinds of reason. But when all have been said n done, they have one thing in common; they’re shooting stars, a spectacular moment of light and heaven. A fleeting glimpse of eternity and in a flash they're gone...”

Hey...Its raining outside & I'm feeling restless. I guess the weather seems to bother my mind. You just can't get it off your mind because, its an Uncertain & Unquestionable thing to find the answers to whats been bothering you.

I've been thinking alot lately..but somehow i just want to share An Article. Kind of a very long one thou; but its worth to read. Got this article from a An Aquaintance friend by the name of Boyd, he's one of my Ex-Classmate during St James & SMPJN KB. And thanks for letting me to share it in my blog.

INTRODUCTION

I may not be an expert or a love guru but I am here to share my experience about the remedy of heartbroken that is going on in our life. I just want to tell anyone that reading this and suffering from a broken heart that you will be okay. You will get over this. Some of you may be thinking to yourself “I’ll never get over him or her”. Believe me, you will. Or some of you may be thinking “I won’t feel this way for someone ever again”. Once again, you will.

When I broke up with my ex, I feel like I can't even catch my breath to some extent. I felt like I lost my other half, and although it's only been three months since I lost her, I felt the pain was getting worse. It felt like the pain is an ocean, and I'm drowning in it. I couldn’t catch my breath, and I thought there must be weights tied to my feet, because I was only sinking further. They said time heals but it seems as if every minute was translating to another gallon of pain for me to drown in. I'm walking on the track in reverse, and I've felt I’d lost my mind. Whenever anyone talks about any girl, I just think of my ex. When-ever someone says something about a female, my ex was the first that pops up in my mind. I felt myself dying inside and not ever being able to recover from that heart-broken. This is what happens to you when you lost the one you really love.

However, you’re not going crazy or losing your mind. You’re not becoming a hopeless, pathetic emotional wreck either. Your life is not remotely close to being over. You’re just hurting right, hurting really badly and that is ok. All you need is time. It’s true that time does heal all wounds. How long it’ll take to heal? It all depends on you and remember “Rome wasn’t built in one day” and therefore it may not take a day or two but time does heal all wounds.

Heartbroken is when a person that we love tend to abuse our hopes, dream, love, trust and respect, which in later stages, leaves us being hurt or in pain without caring for us. When you are hurt, you will feel pain and this is the hardest emotion that we have to deal during heartbroken. Whether we like it or not we have to face it. The pain is what keeps people from being out of control and not thinking straight. Some even have the decency to try out suicide. Well keep in mind that heartbroken is TEMPORARY but suicide is PERMANENT. By committing suicide, you’re just letting that person that makes all the damage to you wins. U can’t solve anything by committing suicide.

So this a few start i get to share..so drop by to see more of this...

What i bought 2009 and Flood in Kuala Belait

Ya~Daa~Ya~Daa~La~La~La~La~

Just sharing some crap here...Hehehe~~ Ok...2009 i bought this cute heels in which i supposse to buy a flat shoes actually but end up buying This Cute White Heels. I know~I know~ i'd always end up buying different stuff instead the one i plan earlier. I just couldn't help it, besides My Cousin Wedding is around the corner so i'm getting one early *Figures* ahahahhaah..

News Flash - Monday 19th January 2009. It was raining heavily in Kuala Belait. My mom pick me up from work & she told me its flooding everywhere!! So here i took pictures at Jln Maulana, on our way to pick my 2 LiL Sistas back from school..

I was Excited to see Flood *What the HELL??!!* Hahahahaha...

Road along Taman Jubliee KB up to St James School.

P/S: Please be alert!! Drive slowly..its not a river town ok!! Damn those people who drove their car like Water Boat!! *aarrgghh*

ChiLLing out with Long Time Friend

Sunday 18th Jan 2009

- Had a small reunion at Chillz Mall Gadong with My Bro Ald's Bestfriend, Ms Eve & Nate..Suppossely Ms Chacha should have been around but unfortunately she need to look after her Bro's daughter due to Sickness of Small Pox.

Food we ate, shockingly we ordered too many Fries, which i didn't realise because the food i order was include with Fries that is Smoked Beef Sandwich & Fries. My Bro Ald order BBQ Chicken & Fries. Yet we ordered Cheese Fries...*LOST* Seriously, i think My Bro & I had Clouds in our Head?? *LOL*

I Love Nachos with the sauce!! Our All time Favourite food at ChiLLz MaLL..

Ms Eve & Sky snap shot 2009. I'd missed Chilling out with Eve especially checking out those Sexy Hunky Hawt Butt...Dudes *shhHHhh* Dirty Little Secret of hers but guess i mention it to the whole world..Its no more A Secret!! ahahahahah*LOL* ^_^

I missed to eat the food at ChiLLz and~and~ Our favourite waiter..He's no longer working there thou. Hehehee to Ms EVE: Ingat u Babe, the Waiter Guy klo kn take our order he never take his eyes off me & smile a lot everytime we chill sana..hehehehehehe...

The chill out was Simple & Nice though it was windy in which i feel very annoyed a bit due to it, ruined my damn hair Again~ *LOL*

My Bro Ald & my buddy Iszzy *shout out* No Fair i didn't had a snap shot *sigh*

Nate & Ms Eve..To Nate welcome to the circle of friends, hope you'll get to join us up anytime we get to chill.

Nevertheless hopefully next time we can make it again..Especially the 4 of us Ald, Ms Hawa, Ms Chacha & Sky *wink* ^_* Shouldn't be missing pieces either one of us~

Quote of the day:

"It's the little things that matter, that add up in the end, with the priceless thrilling magic found only in a friend"

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009 and Random Pictures

HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009

- Yea..i know its almost been 2 weeks plus now!! Got caught up with lots of stuff & besides didn't get any chance to get snap shots on what i've been doing lately, and i was feeling this virus of a LiL No Mood @_@

Ok..lets get to the snap shots.
Ya~Daa~Ya~Daa~ The BBQ foods~

Yeah..thanks for the New Year at Tina's Paul Crib, though some of the crowds were not there to celebrate with us but did enjoy the moment!! Cheers!!

Quote of the day: "I made no resolutions for the New Year. The habit of making plans, of criticizing, sanctioning and molding my life, is too much of a daily event for me" Anais Nim

Sunday Jan 4th 2009

- Had a small chill out at Ms SpiLLeR crib & Karaoke session. Kind of missing the feeling thou..Especially with Ms Hamster ,Ms G-Cas & Ms FidoDido around, this 3 people rarely get to chill out with the Crowds. We had fun because they we had a Crazy Action while Karao-K-ing. .

Ms Hamster was screaming on top of her lungs singing Mariah Carey ahahahahaha...Crazy Hamster Kusut *LOL*

Oh yah..To Ms FidoDido..We Fall in Lurveeeee with your voice!! *LOL* ^_^

Thanks for the chill out had fun with the Karaoke Crazy Actions!!

Quotes of the day:

"Friendship is born at that moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one." ~ C.S. Lewis

"Good friends, good books and a sleepy conscience: this is the ideal life." ~ Mark Twain