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Tuesday, November 18, 2008

For the Heart Broken People

I'm maybe not the best person to say or to cheer up the Heart Broken people..

My Love life almost everyone has rated it to be the "Best Love" they've ever seen. Hey its not as easy as it looks like, i've been thru A Hard Rock Bottom Love pathway!! 8 years...Ya obviously most people would said "WOW!! Thats a long relationship..So Sweet!!!" Ya da~Ya da~Bla~Bla~Bla




But you know what peeps; If it haven't been My Lover & I really work things out..we wouldn't have been here till today.

Of course both of us had said "We can't promise not to Hurt each other" Thats the Real Deal..

We don't need any Fancy Mancy sweet cheap promises to work the Relationship to stay as long as we like. The Real Deal here is whether you want to work it, make it, especially CHOICES, DECISION, COMPROMISE not only all those receipes it could be anything, As long as both party willing to do it.

But ya..I have no place to say any better Inspiring words to make the Heart Broken..Happy!!

This is for the broken hearted. I know how you feel.
Empty, betrayed, and no happiness whatsoever. You don't want to laugh, because you know it's not going to help, but you don't want to cry, because it will just make you feel worse.

You feel like your heart is falling apart, but not only that, but you know soon your life is going to feel like it's falling apart too. You don't think it will ever end, and no matter what this person has done to you, it feels impossible to stop loving them. And everyone wonders why if they have hurt you so much, then why do you still love them. That's the confusing part, you don't know why, you just do, and the people who hurt you the most, and normally the ones you love the most.

And then, after a few weeks, you finally feel a sense of relief, like you're getting happy again, but you know inside that you're just going into denial. And after a few more weeks, you're back to where you were an empty soul and teary eyes. You thought you got over them, but really, you just stopped showing it. And you can't help but to show it again. It leaves deep scars on your heart that are there forever. And no one understands how you feel, and how deep you are hurt, no matter who they are, because it hasn't happened to them.



And even if it has, every broken heart is different. They don't know the true pain you feel and carry each and everyday now, so you learn that basically you are alone with all this. And the feeling starts to overwhelm you, and suddenly you just break down, right there, because you know you've had enough, the tears just instantly start flowing, and you're to the point where you don't care who see's. Because you've spent so many nights lying awake in bed, and so many days being haunted by the scars and fear of rejection. And in the midst of all these tears, you know that its not helping any, and it's not going to bring them back, if you ever even had them in the first place.


After about a million tears have been cried, you finally pull yourself back together and keep going. Your throat starts to clench and your eyes burn with the tears you are trying to hold back. Everyone says, "It will be okay…” But you know it won't. And that’s the truth, it won’t. And you look back on all of the hurt you had from this, and you realize that people are horrible. You're still hurt, but you've learned to hide it so that everyone thinks you are okay. So now every time you see this person, you know you still love them, and you feel a slight tingle in your heart yearning for them to love you, screaming out, but for some reason they don't hear it. And then you sit back and wonder how one person could have caused all of this...



“This life is yours. Take the power to choose what you want to do and do it well. Take the power to love what you want in life and love it honestly. Take the power to walk in the forest and be a part of nature. Take the power to control your own life. No one else can do it for you. Take the power to make your life happy.”

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