Ajoy & T10 Wedding/Nikah reception & Outing for Ice Cream

T10 & Ajoy Wedding Day December 5th & 7th 2008

This a tribute to a Dear Friend Close to my Heart T10 & Ajoy on their Big Day of the Year. I didn't get any good shots, thou Echa took some pictures, so Darlenx if you happen to view this blog "Sumimasen" (In Japanese says Sorry) and Enjoy all Snap shots and behaviour of what we did that day while waiting for the reception to starts.

In picture: Sky, NaL & Ms Eve

In picture: Ms Chacha, Ms Eve & Sky

In picture: Ms Eve, Ms Ayu & Sky

In T10 room..hehehe This one is very funny yet Lovely. Ya~Ya~Ya~ My Bro Nal & I were fooling around to cheer ourself up !! Reflection from T10's mirror. Its as if T10 was thinking about us siblings..Ahaks~

December 7th 08 - The arrival of the BrideGroom all the way from Kuala Belait.

Snap shot with Ms Sur our schoolmates during SVSB technical school one of T10's classmate.

Congratulations to the both of you!!

May both are bless with Prosperity,Harmony,Peace & Love!!

After the reception Ms Chacha, Ms Alai & Sky took off to BSB Gadong for Charmy Ice Cream.

YuMMyy Ice Creams!!! WE LOVE ICE CREAMS VERY MUCHHooOO!!

Ice Cream Anyone~~

Oh yah..Look at what we did to Mr Potato..!! Creation done by Ms Chacha & Sky huhuhuhuhu~

Random Pictures Part 2

Sunday December 21st 08 -
ChiLLax Corner Crowds went outing for a Last Minute Plan at Tutong Pantai Seri Kenangan. Had a fun day, so let all the pictures tell the stories...SNAP SHOOT OF THE DAY!!

Ms Roti Keju riding one of those Buggy...i don't know whats the actual name for it Yeaaa..VvvrRRrOooMM~

My Bro Ald the usual being the Part Timer Chef..Smokin'

Iszzy & Sky..Yea just enjoying the Beach but i was kind of a LiL Down because ahahahhaha Damn Wind!! It was sooOOoo Windy and ruined my damn hair, end up having a Messy Hair Day!!

Ms LuLu & Sky first time taking picture together..*sweeettt*

Ms Hottie & Ms Direct Speaking *WooHuuu KinKy Shots!!

Ms Cutie & Ms Hamster

Ms Hottie & Ms Gorgeous *shexxyy* GaLs

There you go...Chillax Cor

ner Crowds Outing Day!!

"If I'm on location on some island, we usually get up at four in the morning to set up. By seven thirty, we're on the beach working until noon, then we rest. It's not exactly a vacation." Daniela Pestova

Birthday WishList

Hey hey..Yea Yea..My Birthday is coming up soon!! Huhuhuh..Typical it is a "Wanting to have one" List for gifts. Anyway, just sharing those Fancy Mancy Wishlist..

Birthday Dec 19th 08 WishList Gifts:


DKNY NIGHT PERFUME



BABY PHAT PUMP HEELS

TIFFANY & CO MARTINI PENDANT



N810 NOKIA HANDPHONE
P/S: I'm Needing a New one because currently mine is F&%$ Up!!

SONY T300 CYBERSHOT

NEW PSP??

Does this one really going to be in future times??

And last but not least

WEDDING RING

- Of All this has been going up in my mind..

There you go my Typical Wantings!!! Hahahahahaha....

Events from BBQ at My Crib, Tour Guide in KB & Random Pictures Part 1

Saturday Nov 29th 08 - Had a BBQ Night at My Crib Kuala Belait..I didn't get to take lots of snap shot during that night..so here are some of the pictures.

Thanks to ChiLLax Crowd for coming..thou its nothing special..but hey we did sing a song for our Birthday Beh..Lijan(The one sitting in the middle with red shirt).

Not forgetting to my Bro Ald's Bestfriend Ms Eve & her friend Ayin all the way from BSB. Its been awhile i didn't get to see Eve; she's been busy with her Final Year Exam at ITB..yea Hopefully she Graduates next year!! Break a Leg Dalenx!!! Oh darn Echa is not in the picture...

Here are some of the ChiLLaX Crowds candid pictures.

My Crazy Crowd GirLz.. Ms Laughable, Ms SpiLLeR & Ms Ariel

Again Ms Ariel, Ms BeB & Ms SpiLLeR

My Buddy Iszzy & Sky

The Cuties...Ms Laughable & Iszzy

The Hawtyzz *Thats HoT*Ms Seashell & Sky..Its been awhile since she been chillin at my crib & that was during Gawai Festive Open House..yet "She's Still a Hawty!!"

The Hunky Guys: Iszzy & My Bro Ald

Featuring the Man of the Night.....Seto Masato..who planned for this BBQ & not forgetting to my Siblings Bros..Thanks for making it Happen!! Really Appreciate it!! *tsk*tsK*wink*

Quote: "Koishigaru Seto-kun" *tsk*tsk*sob* You Left me Hanging & Lost in the Fog~

Watch, Learn & Listen Part 1

Loving Unavailable People

Learn how to not do it!

Oh, why do we love those that can't love us back? It's the agony of romantic comedies, tragedies and endless journal entries. If you are stuck in the sad pattern of falling into relationships that leave you without love, you may be loving unavailable people.

Remember, it takes two to be in a bad relationship. That's why it's important to look at your choices so that you can get out of the untouchable tango and into a healthy (equal!) partnership. Here's how to find out if you love unavailable people and, if so, see how to move on!

If they're committed - they're unavailable!

Sounds so obvious, doesn't it? Then you hit it off at a party and talk all night long and smile and flirt and just before you lean in for a kiss, the cell phone rings. It's the roommate - the lover best friend who lives in their shared apartment. But, don't worry... they're going to break up any day now. Which you tell yourself repeatedly when you come by for an afternoon quickie that has to be done by 4:30pm because that's when the "roommate" comes home from making the world a better place. Don't bargain with this in your head. It's a landmine. Don't just be friends. It's a landmine. If you are sincerely attracted to someone in a committed relationship, you are attracted to pain. Walk away. Because even if your fantasy of breaking them up comes true, watch your back. For the next time they cheat on the "lover-best-friend-they-are-living-with", it will be you!

Don't lie - to yourself!

If you would rather lie to yourself than confront the person you're sleeping with, you are loving an unavailable person. They said they would call Sunday night. Instead, when you call on Tuesday they explain how busy it's been with work and life. If you would rather justify this in your head with, well, we don't have to see each other all the time, or some other lame explanation for the fact that you were so low on the priorities that everything else comes first, then you are chasing someone who doesn't care about you. Your hesitation to simply say, "I was hurt when you didn't call me" is because you would rather make up excuses than face the fact that this relationship isn't what you want it to be. If you believe that this relationship will dissolve if you communicate how you really feel, then it's not really a relationship, is it?

Once is enough

If you have never loved someone who has loved you back, you are going to love an unavailable person. We learn to love those that can't show up for us from our primary love relationships - for most of use, that is our parents. It may not be as simple as whether or not your parents were married or divorced, but rather, did they engage with you in a consistent and loving manner? Were they willing to put your needs first when it counted? Did you feel safe to express how you feel and that what you said mattered? If you weren't loved in a healthy way, you will seek the same dynamic in your romantic relationships. The good news is, you only have to love an unavailable person once in your life. Then you have a choice to do it the same way and feel the same way or to try it another way and see what love has for you!

Love yourself

It's important to realize that you need to love yourself more than you love the unavailable person. When you love someone who can't show up for you, you are participating in the dance of unfulfilling love. You are judging yourself unworthy of a deeper consciousness. You are putting yourself below someone who can't even really see you.

Love yourself first. Treat yourself like royalty. Indulge yourself with self-care and cultivate friendships with healthy loving people. You will find your way to attracting someone who can love you as much as you love yourself. We teach others how to treat us. If you are showing up for yourself, you won't be able to tolerate someone who doesn't show up for you.

Wounds, Scars Article

I just want to share some articles i've read. This is General, so don't get so DEFENSIVE with what i had to share.

Wounds of War

Release the battle scars of love
You know the feeling. It's post-breakup. You're devastated. Whether you made the break, or worse still, were broken up with, the fear slowly creeps in. What if I never find someone new? What if they really were the one for me? What if I'm… (gasp) unlovable!
Everyone experiences insecurities in the wake of an expired affair. In fact, many of them are directly related to the relationship that has ended (and the ones that came before). If they cheated, you think all lovers cheat. If they were lazy, you think all partners are lazy. If the relationship was fiery but expired quickly, you think passion can never last. Well stop right there, I'm Destined to be Alone Voice! One of the best ways to ensure you get the love you deserve is to let go of your misconceptions and assumptions - even when they're based on your own experience. There are some generalizations that can be made about love, but the universal truths are few and the options are many.

Here's just a little example:

TRUTH: You are loveable, flaws and all.

No matter what went wrong last time, you are worthy of unconditional love. Even if self-esteem isn't your strong suit (something you've got to work on), I'm 100% sure you can find at least one thing you like about yourself, whether it's your nose, your wardrobe or the way you smile at everyone you see in the elevator. If you look hard, there are most certainly more things that make you special. So whether you think you're too fat or too thin, too selfish, too meek or too demanding - it doesn't matter. We can all work on strengthening our positives and reducing our negatives (and these are things we all need to do). But love doesn't require perfection… think about it. Nobody's perfect, right? But all around you, every day, people are finding love. So can you!

MISCONCEPTION: You already know how relationships are.

I don't care how many lovers you've had, no one knows how "relationships" are because there are way too many of them to generalize! So if your ex cheated don't just assume a new person will too. Now that's not saying don't use the information you've gained through experience. There are always signs that indicate certain behaviors and feelings in everyone! But oftentimes, whether we know we're doing it or not, we make assumptions that prevent us from finding the right kind of mate. You have to believe that a good person is out there - even if you don't have any proof (yet).

Manifestation is the key - remember, you create your destiny - and that goes for love too!

ChiLLax going crazy Nov 2008

Beach Party Nov 2008

Just sharing some pictures we've taken last Saturday night. We went there Saturday Nov 16th 08 (Farewell Party) & Nov 22nd 08 & thats 2 in a row Beach Party!!

This was taken on Saturday Nov 16th 08..The Best Beach Party; ever went to...It is very fortunate that night the weather very pleasing...not even Windy at all..just a Nice & calm humidity!!

Thats Atong with Grey shirt..she's the one who invited us at the Party. Its actually her Friends Farewell Party.

Here are all the Crazy Crowds taking pictures under the Hut..

Thats Didi the Camera Paparazzi of the Night!! Oooppzzz!! Jgn mare ehh...(~~,) So cute; Do the Cheesy Dance!!

This picture was taken on Saturday Nov 22nd 08. We got invited too but unfortunately the people who invited us are NO WHERE to be seen that night; but what the heck we just enjoy our Beach Party!!

This guy his name is Jo; a friend of Didi. Oh yah we have a friend, her name is Jo too; so we can't be mixed up with similar names & we named this Hawty,Hunky "Jo Guy". He's Mixed Chinese & Canadian, 22 yrs old, 5ft 7in, SINGLE (I think maybe, i wasn't there when he got introduced to the other crowds so i don't know whats his status). He does look like one of Japanese Taiwanese actor 'Takeshi Kaneshiro'. Ain't they Look alike!!!

Takeshi Kaneshiro Japanese Taiwanese actor

Group picture with Jo Guy. I know we do look hideous & that; thanks to the Booze up thingee.. *gasp* hehehehehhe

ChiLL'n out & Enjoy the Music~

CamPose

Thats the 'Hut' i mention earlier & thats where the Dance floor..Shake those Arse off Lads & Lass~

The Beach Party Dj~ Please Don't Stop The Music~

Enjoy with all the picture sharing!!

Quotes:

"Enjoy yourself. These are the good old days you're going to miss in the years ahead"

"When we drink, we get drunk. When we get drunk, we fall asleep. When we fall asleep, we commit no sin. When we commit no sin, we go to heaven. Sssoooo, lets all get drunk, and go to heaven"

"People dislike alcoholics, but they still drink at parties. People sit in non-smoking section in restaurants, but still enjoy the occasional nicotine jolt. People have strong feelings against self-injurers, but they also take all their emotions out on other people"

"I'm old enough know better but young enough not to care"

"If life is a waste of time and time is a waste of life, then lets get wasted and have the time of our lives"